Week 1
What is Practice? Week 1 (7/10/25)
I will arrive at 6:45 each class for questions – Class will start at 7:00pm
Click Here for a PDF of the home practices.
- Sitting & Standing: For 10-30 minutes per day. Notice the attitude you have when you sit. How you practice is an important area of practice itself. Standing: Be aware of standing in your day.
- Gratitude Practice: Text or e-mail “your buddies” 3 things you are grateful for each day. Can be anything. No need to comment on anyone’s gratitude’s– just read them and feel them. For those new to Gratitude: Gratitude is appreciation, thankfulness, gratefulness. Gratitude is the capacity to take delight in life, in this moment, in being alive! Gratitude is the ability to let ourselves feel joy and wonder. We have so much to be grateful for. Our life rests on the lives of so many lives. (See poem at the end of for hints about gratitude practice) I will e-mail you your buddy groups
- Ask once a day: What is your intention in practice?
- Reflect: What is your aspiration in practice? Why are you doing it? It’s very important for the motivation to arise out of your own heart, your own understanding. What is the deepest intention you have for your life? How does your practice fit into that? Does that deepest wish have to do with meditation practice? Or does practice support your deepest intention?
- Reflect: What is your aspiration in practice? Why are you doing it? It’s very important for the motivation to arise out of your own heart, your own understanding. What is the deepest intention you have for your life? How does your practice fit into that? Does that deepest wish have to do with meditation practice? Or does practice support your deepest intention?
- Notice in your formal sitting and daily life, How you practice? How do you practice? Not judging, as best you can notice, be mindful of how you are practicing.
- Reflect on the Honeyball Discourse: “What we frequently think about, ponder and dwell upon becomes the shape of our mind/heart.” The shape of our mind/heart shapes our world experience. Notice where you ponder or dwell.
- Practice kindness. “There is no spiritual practice more profound than being kind to one’s family, neighbors, the cashier at the grocery store, an unexpected visitor, a stray cat or dog, an any other “invisible” beings who may cross our paths in the course of a normal day. Certainly there are great spiritual mysteries beyond description to explore, it becomes clear that those special experiences are only meaningful when they arise from, and return to, a life of ordinary kindness.”
- Reflect on Dogen: Being is always and only being in time; time is nothing other than being. To really live is to accept that you live “for the time being” and to fully enter that moment of time. To live is to embrace each moment as if it were the first, last, and all moments of time… This moment that is just for the time being, because it passes even as it arrives. Meditation is feeling the feeling of being alive for the time being.
Three Gratitudes
Carrie Newcomer
Every night before I go to sleep
I say out loud
Three things that I’m grateful for,
All the significant, insignificant
Extraordinary, ordinary stuff of my life.
It’s a small practice and humble,
And yet, I find I sleep better
Holding what lightens and softens my life
Ever so briefly at the end of the day.
Sunlight, and blueberries,
Good dogs and wool socks,
A fine rain,
A good friend,
Fresh basil and wild phlox,
My father’s good health,
My daughter’s new job,
The song that always makes me cry,
Always at the same part,
No matter how many times I hear it.
Decent coffee at the airport,
And your quiet breathing,
The stories you told me,
The frost patterns on the windows,
English horns and banjos,
Wood Thrush and June bugs,
The smooth glassy calm of the morning pond,
An old coat,
A new poem,
My library card,
And that my car keeps running
Despite all the miles.
And after three things,
More often than not,
I get on a roll and I just keep on going,
I keep naming and listing,
Until I lie grinning,
Blankets pulled up to my chin,
Awash with wonder
At the sweetness of it all.
Week 2
What is Practice? Week 2 (7/17/25)
I will arrive at 6:45 each class for questions – Class will start at 7:00pm
Click Here for a PDF of the home practices.
I will arrive at 6:45 for each class for questions- Class will start at 7:00pm
- Sitting & Standing: For 10-30 minutes per day. Formal practice: What is your intention as you begin the meditation? Notice the attitude you have whenyou sit. How you practice is an important area of practice itself. Not judging, as best you can notice, be mindful of how you are practicing Standing: Be aware of standing in your day.
- Gratitude Practice: Text “your buddies” 3 things you are grateful for each day.
- Ask once a day: What is your intention in practice?
Reflect: What is your aspiration in practice? Why are you doing it? It’s very important for the motivation to arise out of your own heart, your own understanding. What is the deepest intention you have for your life? How does your practice fit into that? Does that deepest wish have to do with meditation practice? Or does practice support your deepest intention? - Reflect: “What we frequently think about, ponder and dwell upon becomes the shape of our mind/heart.” Notice where you ponder or dwell.
- Do you understand how everything you do can be practice? How well integrated is mindfulness-awareness-presence-practice in the rest of your life? What are some of the preoccupations that pull you away from present, from being mindful? From being awake? Do you get attached to pleasure, to comfort? Are you aversive to discomfort? Is that an important motivating aspect for your life? For practicing?
- If you’re practicing mindfulness-awareness-presence throughout the day, notice when in the day are you most likely to be present and when you are most likely to lose the mindfulness-awareness-presence? Are there any patterns?
- DELIGHT in being present-awake-aware-here. Like Mary Oliver said, “Step through any door full of curiosity and wondering, What is it going to be like? Be married to amazement!”
- Reflect On Balance. Is your life balanced? Is your practice balanced? Is there a balance of activity and non-activity, work and not-work, socializing and being alone? Do you have time for some kind of contemplation? Is there a balance energetically? Is there balance between balance faith and wisdom, confidence and discernment? Between energy and calm or concentrated. Is there balance between service and self-care? Is there balance between practice and study?
- Have FUN!!
Week 3
What is Practice? Week 3 (7/24/25)
I will arrive at 6:45 each class for questions – Class will start at 7:00pm
Click Here for a PDF of the home practices.
- Sitting & Standing: For 10-30 minutes per day. Formal practice: What is your intention as you begin the meditation? Notice the attitude you have whenyou sit. How you practice is an important area of practice itself. Not judging, as best you can notice, be mindful of how you are practicing Standing: Be aware of standing in your day.
- Gratitude Practice: Text “your buddies” 3 things you are grateful for each day.
- Pause Practice: a few times a day for 10 seconds to a few minutes
- Internet, Social Media, Device Practice. Practice mindfulness while using your devices.
- Simply Pause
- Feel your feet on the floor
- Shift into relaxation-Rest-soften muscles anywhere you feel tension –
- Notice how the body feels, Widen attention over the entire body — Inhabit the body
- Pay attention as if listening to body
- Float the Question: “What is happening right now?”
- Listen for the answer, without judgment, & let it be or let it go.
- Feel your feet on the floor or Rest within the body.
- Questions: Pick a couple Read them again & practice with them
- Reflect On Balance. Is your life balanced? Is your practice balanced? Is there a balance of activity and non-activity, work and not-work, socializing and being alone? Do you have time for some kind of contemplation? Is there a balance energetically? Is there balance between balance faith and wisdom, confidence and discernment? Between energy and calm or concentrated.. Is there balance between service and self-care? Is there balance between practice and study
- What are the challenges you have in doing the practice? What are the obstacles you have? Sometimes it’s really useful to look at what attachments you have–what are the places you get stuck when you practice?
- if you’re practicing mindfulness through out the day, when in the day are you most likely to lose it? Are there any patterns behind it? It’s easy enough to lose your mindfulness and not think that’s important –“I’ll get around to it eventually.”
- Or what are some of the preoccupations that pull you away from present, from being mindful? What are the challenges you have to work through that’ll be useful to look at more deeply and more carefully? Do you get attached to pleasure, to comfort? Are you aversive to discomfort? And is that an important motivating aspect for your life, an important obstacle for doing the practice?
- What’s the role that fear or aversion has for you? What’s your relationship them?
- Are there issues, concerns with your ethics- with non-harming- Sila? Exploring how you act is an important part of practice.
- How well do you understand how selfing works? –the whole idea of how we create a sense of self, make up a sense of self? Look at: How does self-image come into play when you practice? What are the expectations around self? What kind of self are you trying to create, & for who? Looking carefully, much of what we think of as the self is a construct. It’s an activity that’s being created, formed, shaped moment-by-moment.
- Appreciating the understandings and insights that come with the practice. It’s not just a matter of changing, or being calm, changing your mind state-it’s a matter of understanding how your mind works, how your heart works. What are the causes and conditions that bring together the forms of suffering that you have? What are the causes and conditions that bring liberation from suffering? There is a lot to understand 🙂
- Understand how clinging works. To understand the nature of grasping, clinging, and all the subtle and ways in which we cling. Then to understand, if you can, how you can release that clinging. If you understand those two things. There is value in those two things
- There’s also insight into some of the beautiful states of mind, of heart that can arise up as we practice. You can have insight into how compassion works and the value of compassion, insight into loving-kindness, how to develop loving-kindness, how to cultivate it. There’s a lot of things- Joy- equanimity- generosity!
- What are understandings you’ve had in practice?
- Do you understand how everything you do can be practice? How well integrated is mindfulness-awareness-presence-practice in the rest of your life?
- At the end of the day, reflect on the benefits of practice you experienced in your day. Inquire within, what allowed you to be most alive?
- Have FUN!!
FOR FUN: Give yourself a gift–Not just Spindrift Passion Fruit flavor- or ice cream!
Go out into the woods, the mountains, walk along a stream, a pond, a lake or the ever-changing ocean. Or just look at the sky! Look closely at a hundred kinds of steadfast trees, follow the graceful flight of birds, marvel at all the animals & human beings, listen to the laughter of children. Or just look around. See people, nature – the whole scene, sense the warmth of your body, feel the mood & your pulsing heart. If you were in danger of losing your life, what wouldn’t you give for a moment like this? Take a breath. Treasure it. Smile.
SOAWESOME!